Love Me Tender: Team NOLA Flirts with Bondage

By Sarah Ramteke on April 4, 2011 in AmeriCorps

Having already walked dogs at the animal rescue, weeded a sculpture garden, and repaired a house destroyed by Hurricane Katrina, Team NOLA next decided to volunteer at a bondage education night. On February 16th, Team NOLA volunteered at the New Orleans Gay Men’s Wellness Center’s inaugural event– “Love Me Tender: Flirting with Bondage the Proper Way”.

The Wellness Center is a project of the Louisiana Office of Public Health which focuses on promoting health in all aspects of the body, mind, and spirit. Team NOLA member Brandon, who serves as an Americorps member at the Wellness Center, planned and organized “Love Me Tender”. At this event, attendees were educated on safe bondage practices as well as offered free, rapid HIV testing.

The event took place on the second floor of John Paul’s, a gay bar located in a beautiful house in the Marigny neighborhood of New Orleans. Team NOLA arrived an hour early to help set up the event.

Brandon opened the event with an exercise to break the ice. A volunteer stood with his/her back to the audience. Then Brandon held up a word and the audience gave clues to the volunteer to help him/her guess the word. All volunteers were awarded prizes, such as condoms or a copy of Rough Trade, an anthology of gay S&M erotica.

Next, local masseuse and bondage expert Patrick Tyrus gave a talk about safe bondage practices. Some of the topics he covered were the best knots and ropes to use, basic safety rules, and the importance of communication.

After a short break, Tyrus gave a live demonstration of all the topics he had just discussed. He tied up a woman who had previously arranged to volunteer and demonstrated different ways to use spanking, chopsticks, and clothespins in one’s bondage practice. After some Q&A, the event was over. Some audience members took the opportunity to have Tyrus demonstrate a few rope ties on them.

The event was a success. The small room was bursting with about 35 attendees, 3 of whom were tested for HIV and all of whom were educated on safe bondage practices.



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